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If two people are talking lively and you don't understand their culture or their language, you might think they are having an argument.



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Using gestures is common in some countries but not in others.

Then there are some movements like shaking your head which mostly means ¡®no¡¯ but in some countries can mean the opposite.

There are plenty of gestures you need to be careful with when you¡¯re meeting and greeting people from a culture that¡¯s different to your own to avoid offending people or making an awkward faux pas¡¦

For example, our every day use of the thumbs-up signal might offend people from the Middle East.

How easy it is to misunderstand why people behave the way they do in everyday situations when we don¡¯t belong to the same culture.

 

[Erin Meyer, Business Professor in Dubai]

A while ago I was in Dubai and one of my students, my Emirati students, was driving me home after a session and the car stopped at a light and she rolled down the window, and she started shouting at someone outside of the window. This guy was crossing the street with a big box of cloth. And he started shouting back, and she opened up the door, and they started gesticulating and shouting at one another. And I thought, wow, they¡¯re having a huge fight, I thought maybe he was going to hit her. And she got back in the car, and I said, well, what were you fighting about? And she said, ¡®Oh no, no, we weren¡¯t fighting, he was giving me directions to your hotel.¡¯ And I thought that was a great example of how someone from another culture may misperceive or misunderstand something as a fight when in fact they were just being emotionally expressive.

 


Erin Meyer was worried because her student and the man on the street were shouting and gesticulating at each other. She thought they were having a fight when in fact they were just being emotionally expressive.   

In some Southeastern European areas such as Bulgaria and southern Albania, shaking your head is used to indicate "yes". In those regions, nodding in fact means "no" as well.


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 Several years ago, a U.S. vice president visited a country in South America. While he was exiting from the airplane, someone from below asked, ¡°How was the trip?¡±

The vice president didn¡¯t think he could be heard over the crowd, so he used the OK sign.

In the country he was visiting, however, the sign was interpreted the way ¡°giving the bird¡± is interpreted here.

 The local paper printed a picture of our vice president giving the equivalent of the bird to that country.

Needless to say, the people of the country were not too pleased(demonstrations, egg throwing, etc.).                                                    (Richmond & McCroskey, 2004:295)

 

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Country

Greetings

Gestures

1. Brazil

Effusive, extended handshakes.

OK sign is vulgar. Good luck is thumb between index and middle finger while in a fist.

2. China

Nod, bow, or handshake.

Do not speak with hands. Point with open hand.

3. Denmark

Handshakes firm & brief for both arriving/leaving.

OK sign is insult. In theater, enter with back to stage, not seated people.

4. England

Handshake. Say ¡°How do you do?¡±

Impolite to talk with hands in pocket. Give V with palm facing outward. Inward is insulting, rude.

5. France

Shake hands. Touch cheeks. Kissing the air.

Thumbs up means OK. OK sign means zero. Don¡¯t chew gum in public.

6. Germany

Shake hands firmly. Men may kiss woman¡¯s hand.

Formal/reserved. Little smiling. Few displays of affection.

7. Japan

Very aware of Western habits. Handshake is good. Their handshakes may be soft or limp. Bow is the traditional greeting.

OK sign means money. Beckon to come is done with palm down.

                                           (Richmond & McCroskey, 2004:297-298)

 

À§ÀÇ Ç¥¿¡¼­ »ìÆì º¼ ¼ö ÀÖµíÀÌ Çѱ¹¹®È­¿Í ÀϺ»¹®È­´Â ¸öÁþ¾ð¾î(gestures)¿¡ À־ °øÅëÁ¡ÀÌ ÀÖÀ½À» ¾Ë ¼ö ÀÖ´Ù. Çѱ¹°ú ÀϺ»¿¡¼­ OK signÀº Çö±Ý(cash)¸¦ ÀǹÌÇÏÁö¸¸ ¹Ì±¹¿¡¼­´Â ¡®good¡¯ ȤÀº ¡®everything is fine¡¯À» ÀǹÌÇÏ¸ç ¹Ì±¹¹®È­±Ç¿¡¼­ÀÇ Çö±Ý(cash)Àº ¾öÁö¼Õ°¡¶ôÀ¸·Î ´Ù¸¥ ³ª¸ÓÁö ¼Õ°¡¶ôÀ» ºñºñ´Â °ÍÀ¸·Î Ç¥ÇöÇÑ´Ù. ±×¸®°í ´©±º°¡¸¦ ºÎ¸¦ ¶§´Â Çѱ¹°ú ÀϺ»¿¡¼­´Â ¼Õ¹Ù´ÚÀ» ¾Æ·¡·Î(palm down)ÇÏ°í ¿À¶ó´Â ¼ÕÁþÀ» ÇÏÁö¸¸ ¹Ì±¹¿¡¼­´Â ¼Õ¹Ù´ÚÀ» À§·ÎÇÏ°í ¸¶Ä¡ ¾Ö¿Ïµ¿¹°À» ºÎ¸£´Â µíÇÑ ¼ÕÁþÀ» ÇÔÀ¸·Î½á ÀÌ·± ¹®È­Â÷À̸¦ Àß ¸ð¸£´Â ÇÑÀεéÀ» ´çȲÇÏ°Ô ÇÒ ¼ö µµ ÀÖ´Ù. ´ÙÀ½¿¡ ³ª¿À´Â À̾߱â´Â ¼Õµ¿ÀÛÀÇ Â÷ÀÌ·Î ÀÎÇØ Çѱ¹Àΰú ¹Ì±¹ÀÎ »çÀÌ¿¡ »ý±ä ÀÇ»ç¼ÒÅëÀå¾Ö¸¦ ±¸Ã¼ÀûÀ¸·Î º¸¿©ÁÖ°í ÀÖ´Ù.

 

 A Korean tells of how offended he was when he was beckoned by an American friend using the typical American gesture.

 It is accomplished with the hand in a palm upward position.

The index finger is repeatedly and rapidly pointed at the individual called and

then flexed toward the caller.

The Korean became angry and felt insulted because in Korea this gesture is used to threaten someone or to call an inferior person or a child.

The Korean gesture to call someone consists of waving the hand with the palm down towards the person called.

 Americans confuse this gesture with ¡°goodbye.¡±

                                                                                                   (Klopf & Park, 1982:105)



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https://www.youtube.com/embed/OWFPHW7BCCI

(American Hand Gestures in Different Cultures)


https://www.youtube.com/embed/qCo3wSGYRbQ

Gestures Around the World  



Vocabulary


no hard feelings

 something you say to somebody you have argued with or beaten in a game or contest to say you¡¯d still like to be friends
(ex)

No hard feelings is something you say to somebody you have argued with to say you¡¯d still like to be friends.




to fall out with somebody
to argue or disagree with them
(ex) ¡°I fell out with my best friend at school. We didn¡¯t talk to each other for a whole week!¡±


 

 


gesture
a movement you make with your hands or head to express what you are thinking or feeling
(ex) ¡°She opened her arms wide in a gesture of welcome.¡±
     the verb – ¡°I gestured to Neil that we only had one minute left to finish the show!"

gesticulate¡¯ which means to make gestures with your hands or arms!






faux pas
saying or doing something embarrassing in a social situation
(ex) ¡°I committed a serious faux pas at a party last night





offend
to make somebody angry or upset
(ex) I hope you didn¡¯t offend too many people






expressive

showing what you think or feel

(ex) ¡°Tim has a very expressive face.¡±

¡°I waved my hand expressively to signal to Neil that it was time to finish the show.¡±








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